i dont at all well kinda but she scares me she cuts herself and I know thats her but she tried to get me into it..... :/

its kidna odd that she tried to get you into it cuz i got ina fight wiht sum people turned emo and i didnt try to get them involved wiht it and to tell u the truth i tried to not let them know i cut myself till sum1 saw a scarr and told every1 =.=

say you don't want to be her friend. give her reasons (like. . .)

-you hurt yourself, and i don't like it.

-you've changed, and i don't think we'll ever be as close.

-if you really liked me and wanted to be my friend, you wouldn't have dropped me and started acting weird.

just kind of throw some things down. she her your reasoning.

good luck!

wow before i even had your total question read i was going to say give her a second chance. but after reading all of it i would say keep your distance. although the girl needs help, she needs professional help. you arent equiped to do that. i know you probably feel bad for her, but you can't take on other peoples problems at the expense of yourself. you are wise that you know what her problems are and wondering what the choice should be. dont feel guilty if you decide to step out of this friendship. deal with friends problems you can relate to, like boy problems or parents getting on your nerves. that kind of stuff. i would be pleasant with her but dont hang out with her. and dont gossip about her. ok, the fight is over so no need to keep it going. if she asks again about being friends just tell her that being friends right now is not a good time. i cant commit to a friendship right now, other things are going on that needs my attention.