something similar to Remembering Sunday by All Time Low or Make You Smile by +44

Check out any Sonic Youth song.
My favorite song by them is, "teenage riot"
if that helps any.

Check out Go Radio(Ex-Mayday Parade Singer)- Forever my Father. Awesome song. I'll post more as i think of them.

Its on the myspace. http://www.myspace.co/WEAREgoradio

And check out The Morning Of.....they have a girl and guy singer...poppy but good.

Check out Lydia, a bit mellow but awesome. One of my favorite bands. And check out The Hush Sound

i don't know if this is what you're looking for, but try The Last Night by Skillet... it's kinda sad but good! also Roadside by Rise Against, it's kinda slow but it's good too, i think both of these count as alternative

saw red by gwen stefani and bradley nowell from sublime. Its faster then the songs that you mentioned, but its still a good song.

1997--> http://youtube.com/watch?v=EshWiXKEt5c
the morning of--> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_RT28Q3sJQ

those two are really good.

"Wish Me Well" by the Bouncing Souls is good. Not sure if its what your looking for but..

also "I Don't Wanna Know" by New Found Glory is good. A little slow and mushy but still good.


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Broken by Seether and Amy Lee

Shiny Toy Guns

a little piece of heaven by avenged sevenfold
as you wish by alesana