You can't. Prepies since the 80's have hated punkers. Preps follow the rules of society and live to be better than the guy next to them. Punkers are more real. They speak their mind and don't care who hears it. They also live their life as themselves and could care less what the other guy thinks. I have a couple of punk friends. I love them to death. I am rare. Most preps can't see past the end of their nose. Don't hold out to be a friend of a prep if you are a true punk. I prefer the punkers as my friend any day over a prep.