*blinks* You don't want to be a poser, but you want to be a scene/emo girl?

Ohhh-kkaayy. Yeah. Sorry hun, but that is an oxymoron if I ever saw one. Why don't you try something different....like being yourself and not dressing like a certain label/stereotype.
And please, if you want to label yourself and dress that way...please do something thats not overdone like "indie" or something like that. Indie hair is pretty much messy hair with side bangs that's cut in a softer way. Much more flattering.